I´d like to tie ends from the other side (OSX hackers kexts for MB 4,x for El Cap), so if you could PM me the prelinked kernel of one of your machines, that might help!
The OS X Hackers kexts for 10.11 should work in theory. They are 64-bit and El Capitan is pretty recent. Probably you need to bring over another kext that is a dependency. Did you try the following?
- correctly install them in /S*/L*/E* with fixed permissions
- disable SIP
- boot into single-user mode and run kextutil -t -v 6 /S*/L*/E*/IOUSBHostFamily.kext
What is the output of the command? This should help diagnose why it's not loading.