Hi, don't be discouraged. First, you don't say if you're using a wired or wireless keyboard. A wired keyboard, in these situations, would rule out the hypothesis that the Firmware does not recognize the "low level" wireless keyboard and that it is not compatible with that Mac.
But oh well... Assuming that your MacMini recognizes the Keyboard at Boot:
1) first you have to try to understand if in your case you have to press the CTRL key or the Win key or another, ALWAYS to the left of the Space Bar.
2) Furthermore, the key should not be pressed "after" the Gong, but it is better to press it a moment before the Gong or during the Gong and it is necessary to continue to HOLD IT DOWN until the icon of the disc or discs with which it is possible to start the Mac appears.
Once you have determined that your keyboard works, regardless of whether OCLP is present or not, you must still be able to see the disk on which a supported macOS system is present.
So start by letting us know if you can overcome this difficulty and if you can always see the System disk.
Having solved this first, it will be possible to help you on the other points.
I assure you that the procedures you have requested will then be very easy to explain as long as your Hardware is working (Keyboard, Mouse and SSD formatted as APFS) which is the first thing you need to understand.
Let us know as soon as you manage to do what I have described. Hello and don't be discouraged.
OK - let me try to address most of the questions. As I noted before, I am relatively to the MAC environment, but not new to computers. I have been working on PC's since 1981 and been doing Windows support for over 20 years. I am not very good but I have had apps (iOS) published in the Apple Store, so a little familiarity with using macOS.
I am not trying to sound ungrateful, just trying to level set my experience. I appreciate all the help I can get. So let me try to clear up some of the information I may have left out previously - I just didn't want to post a lot of information if this wasn't the right place to do so.
First, both my mouse and keyboard are attached via USB cables, although when operating normally I use Bluetooth for my mouse and keyboard.
Second, I am pretty sure the keyboard is working and recognized by the hardware. I can hit Command (Windows key)-R and bring up the system in Recovery mode. Also, when booting Catalina normally, if I go into Pages and edit a document I can use Option (left Alt) Shift-down arrow to highlight text to the end of the current paragraph.
The documentation I have seen is telling me that the equivalent of the MAC Option key is the left Alt on a Windows keyboard - is that correct?
I have tried with the timing of the boot tone to hold it down through restart, powering off then holding it down through power up and everything else that I can think of/physically do.
I don't have both the USB Memory stick and USB attached SSD attached at the same time - just one or the other.
When I said that I have tried OCLP 4.5, 4.7, and 4.10, I tried them each once. All three times I wrote them to the new media I was trying to boot from. I also have written OCLP to my current Catalina boot disk, but I don't believe that I have actually activated any of them since I can't seem to bring up the boot selection screen to select the EFI partition.
If I go into System Preferences and select Startup disk, I can't see the Install macOS Monterey (right now on my USB attached SSD), only the current boot system - Catalina.
I don't have easy access to a MAC keyboard as most everyone I know uses Windows exclusively. I can probably order one on ebay but I was hoping this would just be me doing something stupid and not needing to wait a week. I am just trying to get Monterey running on my Mac mini so I can update my apps with the current version of Xcode and create a new one that I need to generate passwords according to the security standards of the company I do some part time work for.
Thank you in advance
Kevin