Google sucks at launches. They've sucked before with the Nexus S and they've sucked before with the Galaxy Nexus and they are sucking now with the Nexus 4. I agree with most of what this article says too:
"Nexus 4 Launch is a Failure" http://www.phonearena.com/news/Nexus-4-launch-is-a-failure-for-Google-Play_id36581
Having said that, you're likely only cheating yourself if you pass on a device that you wanted and will likely use daily for presumably the next year or two, maybe more.
Getting the Nexus 4 wasn't about being first or an early adopter. Getting the Nexus 4 was about getting the stock Android experience. It makes no sense to go back to a less desirable OS because you couldn't switch fast enough.
Again, don't get me wrong. I understand the frustration, but in a few weeks time, you'll be able to get it and try Android just as you had originally planned.
I think its more BS that they let people buy a many as they want only to see them go on eBay. I think they should limit it to 5 at the most. I was going to wait anyways so im not upset i didnt get one. I didnt even try and im sure i can get one within the next month or two....hoping there is a word on a 32 version by then.