Oh you can cause I am wondering the same thing. I read an article that stated that day one of the release goes out to something like 1%. Google watches to see if there are any issues, and if not day 2 send it out to something like 25%. Again Google makes sure there are no issues, and over the next 5 to 7 days the % goes up until after about a week it has been sent to everyone.
I am not sure why they do this, but it does explain some of the wait time. I truly understand your frustration because I was in the same boat. I just could not wait, and my method had worked in the past with no issues, so I went for it again. I understand that is not for everyone, and I don't blame you for not trying it. It will get to you soon, but I know that does not help at all.
I still don't understand why people have to get mad at you because you feel you should have the update. I guess maybe because you compared it to Apple, and we all know that can make some people mad.
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I got the update yesterday, and it is a good improvement. Nothing earth shattering, but a much need fix to the camera. I was also really surprised by the speaker improvement too. Good update that makes what I think is a really good phone into a great phone. Honestly now I don't feel like this phone lacks anything. The battery life is normal, camera now is just as good as most, the screen looks great, speaker is on par, and the build quality is very nice. Could not ask for too much more.
Well expect maybe a fix for some wakelock issues I have having.