It’s okay. I’ve adjusted to the point I don’t notice it unless I want to notice it for testing/comparison purposes.
But now the S10e is here and will wipe the floor with the Xr unless you absolutely positively have to have iOS in your life. And some people do. I may be one of them. I’m not sure yet. Though truth be told, if the XS Max weren’t trying to put me in the hospital with its OLED, I’d still have mine. That display was beautiful despite what it did to my nervous system.
I do like my Xr as a phone, oddly enough. After years of finding iPhones to be terrible as phones, I finally got a good one.