My adapter from BandRBands
http://www.bandrbands.com arrived yesterday. I was really hesitant about purchasing 3rd party (non Apple approved) adapters and bands. I know people are proudly posting pics of their adapters but most of them look like they are a terrible fit to me. I bought the first set on a whim but I'm really pleased with the fit and finish. They look pretty perfect to me. The price is a bit high, but they come with a screwdriver and 4 extra screws. I think given the fit, the price is extremely reasonable. I just placed and order for 2 more sets of lug adapters. Now I just have to find bands the will fit my 135mm wrists. I'm currently looking at deployment bands/clasps and custom options since I think that will be the best/only option for me.
I haven't taken pictures of these adapters with my watch, but I'm happy to do that tomorrow if anyone is interested. I have the ss watch with a couple of sports bands and the link bracelet, and I think the fit is just as good as the Apple link bracelet and the finish matches the ss perfectly.