@MacinMan Re-reading the info from your link, I understand that is makes a difference whether the -p option was used or not. The difference is:
With -p the path is excluded, no matter if it exists or not, and it always stays the same.
Without -p the file is excluded. It must exist, and even if moved to another location, it stays excluded. To allow for this, instead of adding the path as an exclusion (which could be seen in Time Machine options), the file gets an extended attribute that marks it excluded from Time Machine backups.
So when I recommended the -p option and used it myself, that's why I was able to see the exclusion in Time Machine options.
Others obviously did not use -p option, and then I'm not sure if the work-around did in fact work as expected, because a sticky exclusion requires that the file exists when it is excluded – otherwise it is impossible to add the extended attribute (for obvious reasons, you cannot add an attribute to a non-existent file). So if the file would be created later, the TM issue would return.