Are your email address and phone number both added under the "addresses" section on UPS? For some reason mine is being sent to just my first name, not first and last. When I added my number it showed up and said "the address doesn't match," because I used first and last for the account, I guess. Very strange, but hey, I found my tracking in the end.
Edit: Also, it gets shipped to the name on the account. Not the person who orders. In my case, it's my father in law, so I have his name on my UPS account.