Sorry guys, none of you have had an Apple silicone case so as to clarify my doubts?
I love the silicone cases, and in my use they have been fine. Dropped my phone without issues, no issues with premature wear. This was on an 8 Plus
However my wife had a different experience. Her 8 plus case started chipping on the edges after a few months. And then just last month her phone fell out of her purse in a parking lot, hit the open bottom part and shattered the screen. Kinda sucked. Luckily we had Apple care.
I still love the silicone cases though and for the most part they protect fine. But if they hit that open bottom wrong like my wife's drop did it can be an issue.