I've used Windows for many years (since Windows 3.1, if not earlier). I'm also a web developer in a Microsoft based company. So I work on Windows all day, every day.
When I switched to a Mac a few years back, I realized it wasn't Windows. Hell, the price alone let me know I was entering new territory. I knew things weren't going to behave the same. I knew I was leaving Windows behind and learning something new. I accept my Mac for what it is and use it as designed rather than try to get it to behave like the thing I left behind. Are there features I miss from Windows? Absolutely (though this green button thing isn't one of them). Are there things I don't like about my Mac? Absolutely. But at the same time, there are things I LOVE about my Mac that Windows doesn't do. Neither is better than the other. They're simply different. If I want the Windows experience, I'll switch back (or fire up Parallels and runs Windows that way).
It was the same thing when Windows 8 came along. I heard significant amounts of whining from people because things were different. When I tried it out, I really had no problems. Took a day or two of fooling around to see how the new system was put together and how to re-create my old workflows. Then I was just fine (while still not enjoying the new interface).
The point is that I decided to adapt myself to the new thing rather than trying to force the new thing to look like the old thing. And I've been happy since then. There's a lot on my Mac that doesn't look and behave the way Windows does. Some of those are good changes, some are bad changes. Still, I find life goes so much smoother when I learn to work with what I have rather than force it to be something it's not. Don't like the new behavior? Fine, deal with it anyway, find a workaround, contact Apple, look into 3rd party solutions, go back to Windows. There are numerous solutions that DON'T involve insulting people like myself simply because I don't agree with your position. The arrogance and rudeness I've seen in this thread (primarily from a single user) just blows my mind.
As for getting an option added, go for it. I hope you're successful. But, that guy over there? Yeah, he has a really, just absolutely fantastic idea that just needs one or two settings added. And the lady next to him has this amazing idea that just needs 3 options added, and that other person over there... As has been mentioned, if Apple starts adding options, not because they feel it fits with their vision, but because users are demanding them (some quite rudely), you're going to end up like Windows with so many options you won't be able to find anything. Either accept the simplicity of your Mac or go back to Windows.
If you're searching for the perfect OS, you'll either need to write it yourself, work with what you have, or continue to act like a 6-year old child. But only two of those options will ultimately give you long-lasting satisfaction.
PS I forgot to mention that whether I'm on Windows or Windows 8 or Mac or whatever, I've noticed no real decrease in my productivity. Sure, I have to keep in mind whether I'm on a Mac or Windows machine. I have to adapt my thinking and behavior to my environment. Just as I would when switching from an automatic to a stick shift. But when I adapt to the software instead of expecting my software to adapt to me, I completely eliminate any productivity issues. Not that maximizing my windows would be a drain on my productivity in the first place, but apparently we do have users who can turn a 5-second task into wasted hours, so I guess that's an important point to mention.