I'm sorry, man - that's frustrating! This has seemed like the longest "wait" period of any product I can remember.
At least with the iphone, we knew when it was going to be released and how to go about getting one...
And of course in light of war, famine and leaky toilets, this is not exactly a hardship. But still, I like accurate information when I'm spending this much money.
No doubt about actual hardships....but it's just weird. I called Apple this afternoon (2PM EST) and the rep. said he'd be surprised if I didn't get a shipping notice within 24 hours.