Success, (AMD GOP Injection) was the solution. As I mentioned before, I kept the RX 480 as the only gpu in the Mac Pro through out the installation process. With AMD GOP enabled I was finally able to see OCLP Boot Picker (just like I was able to see with the GT 120), and continue the installation.
One small problem was the Initial setup UI for the os when the first setup began after the installation was complete, was extremely slow with the Strix RX 480;
So I ended up taking the 480 out and installed the GT 120 back in again to complete the initial setup process (personal info, password, etc). That's the first picture. Then I swapped the GT 120 with the RX 480 (second picture)
I then downloaded OCLP, and applied the patches to my main install drive (specifically went into OCLP (Developer Settings) once again and enabled AMD GOP Injection. That's the third picture. And applied the patches to my Ventura install drive with only the 480 inside. And restarted. Now I did not need to boot from the OCLP flas drive any more I can boot from my main Ventura install drive now. (For those wondering)
Once I got back into my Ventura install OCLP asked me to apply Polaris Patches and USB 1.1 patches, (that's the 4th picture). [ This will require an active internet connection as OCLP will have to download the patches ]. I clicked ok and OCLP downloaded and applied the patches. And then I restarted.
Once the system restarted I was in a fully functional Ventura Install in my 5,1 (4,1 flashed to 5,1) Mac Pro with my Asus Strix RX 480. That's the 5th picture.
Everything works, Mac Pro plays 4k video on you tube and stage manager works aswell 6th picture.