I made the jump, I feel like I was the frog in tepid water. You probably heard the story, you put a frog in hot water, he jumps out. You put him in luke warm water and he'll not jump out, even with you raising the the temp of the water to beyond what he should have jumped out.
Now that I'm out of the ecosystem, I cannot believe how much I was accommodating and excusing Apple's short comings. I have a laptop that has more ports, more ram, more storage, a 4k screen, it does not throttle or get hot. The keyboard is light years ahead at what apple offers and the cost of that laptop was a fraction of what apple would have charged me.
I hear ya, and to be completely honest, I bought a windows laptop this past summer and promptly returned it because of apple's ecosystem. With the exception of iMessage, I've largely moved on and adjusted my workflow. I finally bit the bullet last month and chose to walk away from Macs and I couldn't be happier.
I'm not an apple hater, but I feel Apple of 2019 is not the same Apple of 20+ years ago and their choices in design is more driven by factors that I do not want, i.e., a wafer thin laptop. I've said many times here at MR, get the best tool for the job, and for me and my needs when looking coldly at what I need. Macs are no longer the best tool.