I didn't read the entire thread besides OP, but here are my 2c. To give you an idea of where I'm coming from, this is my first MBP. 2018 model. I've never even owned a Mac computer until now, always a Windows guy. I have the 15"/2.6/512/560x.
My MBP is phenomenal. Easily the best laptop I've ever had. The keyboard is just fine. Like ANY keyboard, it took a day or two to "acclimate" to the typing distance and stroke in comparison to my last laptop, and certainly my desktop keyboard. But within a day or two, I could type just as fast as any other keyboard. I really don't understand the complaint here, unless people lack the motor skills to swap between keyboards and type properly. It's a simple matter of learning slight differences in muscle memory with the same general layout which most people should be capable of within a short period of time. It's not like you're typing on some foreign object that has an entirely different layout.
Touchbar... I love the touch bar so far! I read so much hate about it on these forums before I bought my MBP I was very concerned about it. The touchbar makes everything so much easier. I primarily work in FCPX now, Photoshop, Logic, Lightroom, etc. Totally makes these tasks easier and more fun, to boot. I'm not a coder or anything like that, but even just daily tasks like entering information into forms online or scrolling through video, its so much better. I've even gotten to the point where I don't always need to look at it to hit "esc" in the rare event I'm using it. The touch bar is awesome IMO.
I can't comment on people coding, etc. Maybe the touch bar sucks for that, I don't know. Some people may say I'm not a "pro" user because I'm not a programmer or some mathematician or something, but I think "pro" simply just means you do professional work on your machine, which I do... from photo/video, to website design, content creation, etc. I really think this machine is awesome for creative content creation, especially with the touch bar.