Personally i think you should just buy the S4 and be done with it. Or not buy any phone at all cos boy you sound picky.
That, I am. There are a few things I dislike about the S4, too! -_-'
The value of the 64GB storage and HTC's $100 dollar trade-in program, and of course, the 14 day free return shipping and no restocking fee really sold me on the One. Much more so than the device itself, I have to admit. But I do want to give it a chance.
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Couch, might be time to step away from the computer and take some time off from reading the forums/boards. I understand one wanting to do thorough research before deciding to spend some serious cash on a smartphone but you my friend, are bordering on obsessive. You clearly have very specific wants/needs in a smartphone and I don't think anything short of a hands-on experience is going to convince you which device is better for you. Get the One, give it a thorough run through for 2 weeks and if it doesn't meet your expectations, return it and give the GS4 a spin.
I just thing reading every last post/comment/review isn't going to help you decide and will likely drive you a bit nuts. It took you actually test driving the iP5 to confirm it wasn't the device for you and I think you'd be best doing the same with these other 2 devices.
Just my observations and a friendly $0.02.
I respect that and appreciate the advice.
It was just a question.